I want to talk about family a little bit. I have said some of this before, but even if I am repeating myself, it’s worth saying again.
The family members get it just as bad as the T1D’s or worse.
For example:
1. My mother was my primary care taker growing up, and scared for my life every second of the day. Guaranteed I am the sole reason for her alleged gray hair and constant anxiety.
2. My brothers were ignored because my care was a primary issue.
3. My friend has 2 of 3 sons with T1D and the son without feels left out.
4. My children often suffer the consequences of my disciplining them when my blood sugar is too high or too low.
5. My wife tolerates my social decisions based on what my blood sugar is rather than me relaxing and having fun.
Non of this is fair for them either. And they can’t complain because they aren’t T1D. They feel guilty for even thinking it.
T1D is a family disease. It affects all members of the family in one way or another.
Now, this isn’t a Debbie Downer message, because the solution is also family driven.
Ask my brothers what it has been like for them to participate in the Hope on 2 Wheels and JDRF Ride to Cure Diabetes events.
Ask the Papola family what it has meant to them that Tony is involved in the JDRF Ride to Cure event and what it has done for their overall family fitness.
Ask the Harleysville Bike Works shop manager, Jason Meyers, what it has meant to his wife, that he has decided to participate in the JDRF Ride to Cure event next year.
Ask Hope on 2 Wheels Co-Founder and JDRF Ride Coach, Scott Kasper, what it has meant to his non-T1D son, that he will be able to ride for his brothers.
It’s a family affair all the way around: management, fighting for better care and fighting for a cure.
If you have T1D, thank your family for having your back. Remember that when they ask you what your blood sugar is, it’s not a challenge, they are just concerned.
If you are a family member of someone with T1D, thank them for taking ownership and taking care of themselves.

